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We Adopted a Girl Who Used a Wheelchair – Her First Request Was to See Our Basement

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 We Adopted a Girl Who Used a Wheelchair – Her First Request Was to See Our Basement Our newly adopted daughter barely reacted to her bedroom, her books, or the rest of the house. The only thing she cared about was the basement. When I found her there the next morning, staring at a sealed-up section of wall, I realized this child knew something about our home that we didn't. My husband and I had spent almost three years trying to adopt a child. By the time we met Ava, we had gone through an emotional rollercoaster. Too much paperwork, too many false starts, and too many cases that seemed promising until they weren't. I had learned not to let one good meeting turn into a whole imagined future. Then Ava rolled into the room and looked straight at me with those serious gray eyes, and joy filled my heart. She was nine years old. Small for her age. Thin, careful, and self-contained. She used a wheelchair after a spinal injury she had suffered as a toddler. The social worker, ...

‎My Neighbor Constantly Borrowed My Appliances – When She Returned My Mixer Dirty and Broken, I Taught Her a Lesson

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  ‎ ‎ ‎My Neighbor Constantly Borrowed My Appliances – When She Returned My Mixer Dirty and Broken, I Taught Her a Lesson  ‎A woman had finally had enough after her neighbor repeatedly returned borrowed items late, dirty, or damaged. But when the neighbor broke the one appliance that carried years of family memories, she stopped arguing and came up with a lesson the neighbor couldn't ignore. ‎ ‎My neighbor Denise has borrowed about ten things from me this year. ‎ ‎It started with my ladder in the spring. ‎ ‎Then the pressure washer. ‎ ‎Then it moved into my kitchen. ‎ ‎The crock pot. ‎ ‎The steamer. ‎ ‎A cooler. ‎ ‎My good roasting pan. ‎ ‎They came back late, or dirty, or missing a lid. ‎ ‎Never with a word about it. ‎ ‎The first few times, I told myself it wasn't worth making things awkward. ‎ ‎We'd lived next door to each other for six years. ‎ ‎Our kids had played together when they were younger. ‎ ‎We watered ...