My 4-year-old pointed at my best friend and giggled, “Dad’s there.” I laughed — until I saw what he was pointing at.
My 4-year-old pointed at my best friend and giggled, “Dad’s there.” I laughed — until I saw what he was pointing at. We were celebrating my husband’s 40th birthday in our backyard. The music was loud, the guests even louder, and kids were running everywhere like it was a playground. In the middle of it all was Brad. Forty looked unfairly good on him. Even after years of marriage, I still caught myself staring sometimes, thinking how lucky I was. I didn’t have time to dwell on it. Someone asked about the food, a kid started crying, and my son Will ran past me with a cake pop. “Will, we don’t throw cake pops!” “I wasn’t!” he yelled — which usually meant he had or was about to. I glanced back at Brad. He was laughing at something Ellie said. Ellie — my best friend since second grade. She was family. Then someone called my name again, and I went back to hosting, moving through the crowd, making sure everything was perfect. At one point, I spotted Will c...